Valuable lessons

ONE:  Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully. 

TWO:  Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.

THREE:  Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want. 

FOUR:   When you say, 'I love you ,' mean it. 

FIVE:  When you say, 'I'm sorry,' look the person in the eye. 

SIX:  Be engaged at least six months before you get married. 

SEVEN:  Believe in love at first sight. 

EIGHT:  Never laugh at anyone's dream. People who don't have dreams don't have much. 

NINE:  Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely. 

TEN:  In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.  

ELEVEN:   Don't judge people by their relatives.  

TWELVE:  Talk slowly but think quickly. 

THIRTEEN:  When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, 'Why do you want to know?' 

FOURTEEN:  Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk. 

FIFTEEN:  Say 'bless you' when you hear someone sneeze.  

SIXTEEN:  When you lose, don't lose the lesson !

SEVENTEEN:  Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and responsibility for all your actions. 

EIGHTEEN:  Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.. 

NINETEEN  When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it. 

TWENTY:  Smile when picking up the phone.. The caller will hear it in your voice.. 

TWENTY-ONE:  Spend some time alone.